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What's eating you?>
True Perspective
20 Dec 2005
"The voyage of discovery lies not in finding new
landscapes but in finding new eyes."
Marcel Proust
The Big Picture
When Rusty Schweikert made his space walk from Apollo 9 and saw the
earth as a whole, it changed him forever: ‘Frames and boundaries over
which we fight are not real from the perspective of space. Individual
responsibility comes out of that direct experience of seeing the planet
as a whole … there is no longer room on the planet for a concept that is
so fundamentally “them and us” … we are all interconnected.’
But this sort of revelation, fortunately, is not reserved only for
astronauts. We can make a similar journey internally. It’s all about
perspective. It is about opening up to a richer and deeper view of
existence, a sense of wholeness. Climbing into a metaphorical spacecraft
and seeing the big picture.
So how?
Move your mind to a place of new perspective and you can think
laterally. Move your whole being to a place of higher perspective and
not only does your thinking change, but a whole new world opens up. This
is what connecting with your core is all about. It is not somewhere you
can reach by thinking. It requires an integration of awareness. And
tapping into the wisdom of the body is a fabulous way to get there. It
is like a portal to a whole new way of being in the world.
This is something people report time and time again, when we work with
them in the Senssoma process. We guide them into through wisdom of the
body, and through heightened sensory awareness into a profound sense of
self. We then help them create what we call a Senssoma blueprint, a
unique pattern of qualities and life elements that represents who they
are. Unforeseen possibilities present themselves, and creative solutions
often appear. Quite a boon if you’re running a large company, or are in
the midst of a life transition. Or are just plain feeling stuck.
What really matters
Steve, the creative designer in a large advertising company, loved what
he did, thriving on creative buzz of a dynamic team. There was a
problem, however. More often than not, he felt conflict with the values
espoused by the companies his ads were promoting. As a result, his
energy and enthusiasm beginning to wane. He wanted to break away and set
up his own business, but lacked the courage to do so. In working with
him he gained a new clarity about his abilities, and about what truly
mattered to him. We invited him to engage with (or ‘wear) his chosen
life themes, and in so doing, feel how they fitted. When he engaged with
the theme that addressed the new business, the power and clarity he felt
was electrifying. He could feel himself in the role he wished, with a
fluid creative flow, and a team of excited people around him. The path
ahead came into focus. Within weeks he had joined with other like-minded
people and started his own advertising business. The energy and
inspiration he felt, and still feels two years later, in his life is
tremendous.
The best sort of goals
When setting goals, many people rely largely on their mental abilities
and are often unconsciously informed by the 'shoulds' and 'ought tos' of
conditioned living. As a result, many set goals that, on a deeper level,
they actually don’t want. Consequently they either don’t get there
(because subconsciously they sabotage themselves), or if they do get
there they feel unsatisfied or confused. In our lives we receive many
messages from family, from the media, from friends and colleagues about
how we are meant to live in the world. Many of these are in conflict not
only with each other, but also with our deepest aspirations. Get rich,
don’t be greedy; be bold and competitive, be responsible; be a hero, be
a homebody. It’s easy to feel confused, and easy also to be left
harbouring a nagging feeling that you are not doing what you are
supposed to be doing.
This kind of inner conflict can manifest in many ways, such as cynicism,
hopelessness, lack of humour, rigidity, and fixation on hierarchical
structures such as IQ, status, money, and on beauty, or even health
problems. Some of the individuals we have worked with have come to the
realisation that not giving themselves permission to enjoy certain
aspects of their life, actually led to physical ailments. This makes
sense when we consider the fact that when our energy reserves are
depleted by being channelled towards dealing with stress or frustration,
there isn’t enough energy left to support regenerative processes and
replenish lost resources, repair damage and fight off illness. Naturally
health can then suffer.
Your body is your friend
The body doesn’t lie. It is an immensely powerful source of wisdom when
used with presence. On offer is immense clarity and vision which, when
accessed, delivers a current of vitality and wellbeing that can move
under, around, over and through any obstacles to a fulfilling life. And
it doesn’t necessarily require leaving your job and making drastic
changes. Sometimes just bringing more balance is what is called for.
Andrea, the manager of a consultancy firm, enjoyed her job, the security
it gave, and the team camaraderie, but the work left her feeling
stressed. She knew something had to change, but couldn’t figure out how.
When we worked together, Andrea came to a deep realisation that she was
taking care of everyone else except herself. She came to understand that
two life elements in particular were hugely energising for her: sport
and self-expression. And yet she had completely neglected them over the
past years. She became emotional when she engaged with the powerful
opening that these two elements gave her, and realised she needed to get
her life into balance.
Within weeks Andrea was getting back into her greatest love, cycling,
and had started dance classes. She even booked herself a cycling
holiday. Contrary to her expectations she was still able to get her work
done as well, if not better, because she felt so much happier in
herself. The improved balance in her life enabled her to be more
efficient and productive at home and work.
A little bit of perspective did Steve and Andrea a whole heap of good.
Rachel flower
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